This week’s feature blog is quite off-topic compared to my blog, but it is on-topic for just about anybody. My friends (yes I will call them friends, because we’ve helped each other out despite the geographic distances, and I also shared with them some of my ideas. Also, they are both wise and open-minded enough for me, a liberal Vancouverite, to like, so that qualifies them as friends!!!) Dan and Jennifer run a blog called AskDanandJennifer.com, and they talk about relationships, love, sex and other topics relating to that.

Here’s a great excerpt from their “About Us” page that turned my head.

A 50+% divorce rate should tell us that what we’re doing now is not working. As a society, we are evolving into a new era. Outdated views around relationships (what truly defines a relationship?), marriage (read “ownership” – you own your car, not your partner), and sex (sex is not bad, we are sexual beings and that’s OK) must to be revisited.

“Question Everything!” It’s time to start thinking for ourselves rather than simply regurgitating everything that been programmed into our heads since we were little children and blindly accepting our parents belief systems.

This couple is a respectable and respectful, open-minded, helpful, and caring pair and I love reading their entries. Who isn’t interested about that stuff? We all want to have a better life and a better relationship withour spouses, and these guys can offer you some great insight on it for sure. If you ever have intersting topics you would like them to discuss and answer for you, you can do that as well.

Here are some of my favorite posts from their website :

Is he really over his ex-girlfriend? How do I know for sure?

How to make the transition from friends to more than friends a little easier

My best friend’s a swinger – will she burn in hell?

Whether you’re having problems, or are simply curious, or want some sex advice for your next one-night stand or for your partner tonight, go there and check some stuff out. You’ll like it. They are on my RSS feed.